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My 4 year old daughter walked in on us having sex!

My 4 year old daughter walked in on my and my husband, her dad, having sex! I am now very worried that it will damage her in some way. Has this ever happened to anyone? How and what where the cercumstances and how did you deal with it? Any Stories? Please help me asap
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Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016-
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Re: My 4 year old daughter walked in on us having sex!
Son, 3 years old, walks in on my now ex-hubby and I, jumps on his back and yells out "Horsey ride Daddy!"  I never needed to have a headache again, I only ever had to say the words "horsey ride" and it was over before it began. LOL Same child 7 years later, catches bf of the time and I in the act. By this time I'd explained baby making and the basics of sex to him. He said nothing and walked on out as if he saw nothing. The next morning he asked me when was the baby going to be born. LOL The best advice I can give is this - if she's old enough to ask a question, she's old enough to hear a simple and basic honest answer. Detailed explanations are not necessary and can do more harm than good, so keeping it simple but honest is the best way.

[d] By: Guest
Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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we have a lock on our door and always lock the door, BUT in saying that the kids know what it is in the way of it is what mum and dad's show their love to each other and is a way to make babies (not that that counts for me as I cant have any more. tell the truth and see what he saw. next time lock the door. LOL When I grew up I had to always knock on Mum's door (it was always closed if she had a male friend over) that might be a good thing to implement at home. my kids knock on our door if it is closed.

[d] By: Guest
Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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Re: My 4 year old daughter walked in on us having sex!
It happened to us.  We were lucky enough that our son was a bit younger at the time.  He woke up and we never heard him get out of his bed.  I think he was just about 2 1/2 -3.  We did not make a big deal out of it and he did not seem to think anything more of it.  By acting as normal as possible, which was very hard to do, it did not phase him.  I really think he forgot it. Since your son is older it may not be so easy.  How you should react in my opinion would cary a lot based on what he saw.  If you were under the sheets it would be a lot easier to explaind then some other...ahem... positions and locations.  Go on his reaction.  If he seems confused or uncomfortable you may need to have to fess up in a very simple conversation of what he saw.  If there is anyway of fibbing your way out of it then go for it.  However, if he saw enough that he is confused you need to help him through it.  He down not need to think that Daddy was hurting Mommy or something like that.  He is way too youn g to understand much.  A simple, "Mommy and Daddy were doing something that adults do to show their love to eachother" and let it go.  The sooner you say it, if needed, the better. I think that the less you make of it then the less he will think of it.  Think about what you remember from when you were 4.  Chances are you only remember some major events like your birthday party or a trip to the zoo.  If you do not make this a big event hopefully it won't  become with.  Just go by his cues. It kind of ruins the mood for a while.  Don't worry, it will get back to normal.

[d] By: Guest
Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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Re: My 4 year old daughter walked in on us having sex!
Never happened to me, but we were both worried about it when the kids were younger.  I think we were overly concerned and kids forget things really quickly unless you make a big deal about it.

[d] By: Guest
Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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