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Re: Dating someone who already has children

Hi there, I was asked by a friend who is single and is seeing a man with two children, what does she do in that situation. She was informed he had two children on their third date and she's not sure if she's comforable being in a relationship with extra's already. Who else has been in a situation where the person their dating has children? How do you act around them? one's 2 and 4? Many thanks littlemiss
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Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016-
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Re: Dating someone who already has children
I met my husband (yes husband) when the kids were 8,9 and 13 they thought who's this taking my dad away? Well they tried everything but we just clicked and nothing was going to get in our way of happyness we had found each other ( after previous bad relationships) It finally ended up the kids started calling me mum and wanting to be with us all the time and not there natural mother.  Today they still hang around us most of the time and see there mother once in a blue moon they enjoy being with us so hope things work out for your friend if this is what she wants ciao Vicki 

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Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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Re: Dating someone who already has children
It seems your friend's date does not wan to hide the truth from her as he told her at their 3rd date. That sounds to me quite responsible on his part. Maybe for the first 2 dates, he wanted to make sure she is comfortable with him. If she is feeling uncomfortable, where does this discomfort come from? If it is with the kids, then she has something to worry about. The fact is the kids will remain his, and will be part of the relationship if it becomes serious. The kids are too young now to be talking about the relationship, but once they reach 8 or as early 7 years old, they will start questioning and want some answers. I met a 10 year girl who told me, her sister is not her real sister. "My dad marries her mum and now they have a new baby." Children start talking to strangers when they feel uncomfortable about expressing to their parents. She is a complete stranger by the way. Love works in strange ways. Your friend needs to became aware of who is involved in this relationship if she decides to go ahead with it. Then from there put the pieces together. There is no room for compromise,especially when children are involved. Best wishes.

[d] By: Guest
Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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Re: Dating someone who already has children
 If your friend is not comfortable being in a relationship where there is children involved, she best quit the relationship now.  If she see's the relationship going forward, just relax and let it happen and being around a 2 & 4 year old will be a breeze. I wish her well.

[d] By: Guest
Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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Re: Dating someone who already has children
I guess it depends on what your friend wants and if she can accept that he comes with the kids or not.  The only way she is going to know if it will work is by giving it a go.  The only person who is going to lose if she doesn't, is herself.  As for how she should act around them?  Well, like you would with a friends 2 and 4 year old of course.  They are not going to be any different to any other children those ages, so your friend should treat them as though they are just kids, and not potential step kids.

[d] By: Guest
Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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Re: Dating someone who already has children
hie there well l think its a bit complex, it all comes to your firends decision, that is , how much she loves the guy. is she ready to wake up and the next thing she is a mother of two ? if she is happy and kids love her then she should go for it but if not then take time to make her mind and maybe let the man know how she feels.

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Date: Thu-Feb-18-2016
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