What is the differences between two way of using Neger?

When I come to NYC from my country, I didnt know that this Nword thaking how seriously. I admit i dont like any racist behaviour. And I heard and read enough news about that I think- politicians,teachers ,tv etc..and each times it becomes big case in society. And they are right. But i dont understand one thing, same word is usual in a lot of hiphop ,rap music...or I hear it is using as a daily regular words between them...How can the word that causes a lot of trouble be used also frequently like this ? what is the difference?
By: Guest
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I don't think you are who you are pretending to be. I does not take an intellectually gifted person to figure out what offensive language is and what is not. It is not hard, especially in large cities, to absorb what is right and wrong. If you are fresh off the boat, I would think you have bigger tasks than to worry about language that does not concern you. If you are in fact established here, then you would know better.

Quit trying to stir up trouble.

[d] By: Guest
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It is not the 'n' thing but rather, who says the 'n' thing.

When one black person says this to another black person, it is just plain fine because they are the same. They do not mean anything offensive. In fact, it is a term of commaraderie within those limits. If someone of a different ethnicity uses it, that someone usually wants to belittle the black person. It is as if to say, you 'so-and-so'.

[d] By: Guest
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i say negers are damn
[d] By: Guest
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What is 1 + 100

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