many considerations
keep in mind, godaddy may not let you connect to the databases from home/ remotely.
also you may need different connection string connecting from home/remotely or from when you code is on the server.
i don't know anything about DreamMasterWeaver, but here's some hello world code you can try out.
note this code is meant to run on the server, NOT from your local machine.
set con = CreateObject("ADODB.Connection")
con.Open "DRIVER={MySQL ODBC 3.51 Driver};SERVER=localhost;DATABASE=myDatabase;USER=myUsername;PASSWORD=myPassword;OPTION=3;"
set rst = con.Execute("create table if not exists foo(x int, y int);")
set rst = con.Execute("insert into foo values(1, 2);")
set rst = con.Execute("select * from foo;")
If Not rst.EOF Then
Response.Write "success"
Else
Response.Write "failure"
End If
post other questions here:
http://www.aspmessageboard.com/forum/databases.asp